STORY THAT LADIES MUST
LEARN (ALL THAT GLITTERS ARE NOT GOLD)
This story is one among
many I've witnessed recently. But it's so unfortunate many of our young ladies
are yet to learn lessons from it. I can't imagine why you are here in Nigeria
waiting for a guy in Yankee to come and marry you. I can recalled vividly how a
course mate dated a guy in UK for good 3yrs, the guy never sent a kobo for her
upkeep but kept juicy words to convince her that she should be patience,
shortly he will return to the country to marry her and take her take her to UK.
The same guy was busy calling her regularly, monitored her movement, so that no
guy can come closer to the lady, until a good day we were chatting together in
the class on relationship issues before she opened up which I directed her to
meet her Pastor. The Pastor advised her to quit the guy, which she adhered to
her Pastor's advise, 6months later she got a new spouse and wedded. The UK
lover boy is still yet to return to the country.
BACK TO THE STORY OF
TODAY
I felt reluctant bringing
up this story to the public in the first place, but for the benefit of those
that care, I decided to do so.
A beautiful young lady
was doing very well here in Abuja. She got a lucrative job in a reputable
organization in Abuja. Her income was very okay. In fact, she was living
comfortably while also running a private business. Three years ago she met a
young handsome man who base in Yankee on social media. They began having an
affection for each other. One thing leads to another, he proposed to her,
without any delay, she accepted the proposal, few months later, she started
processing her travelling documents to travel to meet her new found lover boy.
She sold her car, fold up her business, resigned from work and travelled out of
the country to meet her lover boy. She did all these without disclosing it to
any of her family member neither her friends until she got to U.S, she called
me and some of her friends to disclosed that she's now in U.S doing well with
her husband, in fact, they have carried out all the marriage obligations in the
U.S without the knowledge of her family and friends. Things were rosy with them
until when they began having misunderstanding and the man got fed up with the
marriage.
Two weeks ago, she sent
me a message that her hubby has sent her packing out of his house, she is
looking for money to process her travelling documents back to Nigeria. She's
now squatting somewhere until when her traveling documents will be processed
but worst of all is that the lady that was comfortable in Abuja is now left
with penniless in Yankee but now seeking for assistance from her friends in
Nigeria. She called me to narrate her ordeal and pleaded with me to meet some
of her friends to see whether we can raised money to enable her return to
Nigeria, she's facing serious hardship in the U.S.
As a friend that I
cherished a lot, I sympathized with her and decided to put calls across to
other friends she mentioned to me. Right now, we have raised some money but not
enough, hopefully within the month we will get enough money for her to return
to Nigeria, soonest.
I believe she has learned
her own lesson. I wish some of our ladies out there will learn lesson from this
story. We are looking forward to welcome back a beautiful, talented,
industrious and hardworking young lady who was doing so well in Abuja but was
carried with Yankee based lazy guy.
All that glitters are not
gold. I have many of my friends living in Yankee but relied on girlfriends in
Nigeria to survive. Most of us are doing far better than those claiming to be
in foreign land. Even some of those who are opportune to get a job in Yankee
are using their income to service numerous bills unlike here in Nigeria where
most of us can evade taxes and go scot free but is a very serious crime there.
Stop making yourself so cheap for guys please.
Thank you all for your
attention
