The nature of pure love

Love is a universal word which is on the lips of all people including children and adult. Few people actually knows the nature of love. The nature of love are :
a. Kindness
b. Gentleness
c. Politeness
d. Endurance
e. Reveals and not blind
f. Rejoices in the truthIt is very important to note that God is love. According to John 3:16, "for God so loved the world that He gave us his beloved son so that who ever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life". God's love is the truth and pure love.

Signs of immaturity in marriage

 Marriage as it is known is the union of two people who are madly in love. They come together to profess their love and work together to make their love life work out fine.
Understanding is the best issue in marriage; where it exist there can never be misunderstanding and chaos.

 However, there signs to show that couples are immature in marriage. Such signs are listed below;-
a. Anger - there are situations in marriage where couples have quarrel... and instead of resolving within themselves they tend to be angry and which eventually leads to fighting and finally divorce.
b. Infidelity- couples tend to see another lady or man outside their marriage probably because of the problems at home. This will never bring sanity to the family.
c. Nagging- This is more of the ability of the women than the men. A change to this attitude is needed to make the family good.
d. Vengeance - This is a great thread that damages the love life. It should be avoided if the family must grow.
Others are laziness, battering, malice, pride, un-forgiveness, night crawling, substance abuse, domineering tendencies, lust, lying e.t.c.

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Marriage crashing on negative mindset

Marriage crashing on negative mindset

You must have heard stuff like "those in marriage want to get out and those outside it are rushing in." "Marriage is a social imprisonment "e.t.c. Statements like that program people negatively against marriage and instil fear of permanent commitment in them.
To enjoy freedom, they experiment with serial monogamy, contract marriage and co-existence forms of marriage.
A lady was asked by her younger sister to give her the key to her room in her father's house since her wedding was just less than a week away. She objected and said , " who knows how my husband's house will look like ? I may still return to my father's house . " It was to her according to her faith; less than two months later, she divorced and returned home. Oh what a negative mind-set!

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My dear women

Dear Women: Do you want your
man to love, respect and stay faithful to you alone? I have a love portion you can give him.
The ingredients of the love portion
include:...
1. Always look beautiful and attractive.
2. Be diligent and always make sure the house is tidy.
3. Cook delicious meals for him at
all times and always include his
favourite food.
4. Give him good sex and romance.
5. Always pray for him.
6. Be humble and Submissive.
7. Avoid quarrelling with him and if
there is any form of quarrel,always
settle it before the next day.
8. You must be able to ENDURE. A
woman that cannot endure will never last in a man's house.
9. Love his family members like your own family.
10. Always contribute to the development of the home. Don't
have the mentality that it is the
man that must buy everything.

Love hurt most atimes

Love hurts when you breakup with someone.
Hurts even more when someone
breaks up with you
But love hurts the most,
when the person you love has no idea of how you...
feel.!!!
1. No matter how much the price of
NIKE sandals is reduced, it can never be
sold more than a Garri or Bread.
2. If you have never stolen meat from your mum's soup, it means either she don't cook at all or she is a bad cook.
3. It is a small world does not mean
you can travel or walk from South Africa to Nigeria.
4. If the alarm tone of a China phone
cannot wake you up, it means you may be dead.
5. No matter what happens, 2015 will
be a year of success and break through in your life.
6. In this 2015, no one will walk to you and say ''I AM SORRY'' but they will say
congratulations.
7. The hands that comment ''AMEN''
will claim all the blessings and will live to see what God have planned for them.
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Timely advice to women

TIMELY ADVICE TO THE WOMEN

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 - 10 years younger. Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU.

Today, you go to bed smelling of onions and garlic. You go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks - YES WE KNOW.