Wednesday, April 15, 2015

The nature of pure love

Love is a universal word which is on the lips of all people including children and adult. Few people actually knows the nature of love. The nature of love are :
a. Kindness
b. Gentleness
c. Politeness
d. Endurance
e. Reveals and not blind
f. Rejoices in the truthIt is very important to note that God is love. According to John 3:16, "for God so loved the world that He gave us his beloved son so that who ever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life". God's love is the truth and pure love.

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Signs of immaturity in marriage


 Marriage as it is known is the union of two people who are madly in love. They come together to profess their love and work together to make their love life work out fine.
Understanding is the best issue in marriage; where it exist there can never be misunderstanding and chaos.

 However, there signs to show that couples are immature in marriage. Such signs are listed below;-
a. Anger - there are situations in marriage where couples have quarrel... and instead of resolving within themselves they tend to be angry and which eventually leads to fighting and finally divorce.
b. Infidelity- couples tend to see another lady or man outside their marriage probably because of the problems at home. This will never bring sanity to the family.
c. Nagging- This is more of the ability of the women than the men. A change to this attitude is needed to make the family good.
d. Vengeance - This is a great thread that damages the love life. It should be avoided if the family must grow.
Others are laziness, battering, malice, pride, un-forgiveness, night crawling, substance abuse, domineering tendencies, lust, lying e.t.c.


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Easy settlement of understanding in marriage


Easy settlement of understanding in marriage.

In polygamy, little misunderstandings can become very complex due to the involvement of many people. At times, the misunderstanding spreads to the children , creating incessant brawls. In monogamy, on the other hand , even when there is misunderstanding, it can be easily settled between the husband and wife.
Which of this type of marriage is better based on the analogy above- Polygamy or the Monogamy?
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Marriage crashing on negative mindset


Marriage crashing on negative mindset

You must have heard stuff like "those in marriage want to get out and those outside it are rushing in." "Marriage is a social imprisonment "e.t.c. Statements like that program people negatively against marriage and instil fear of permanent commitment in them.
To enjoy freedom, they experiment with serial monogamy, contract marriage and co-existence forms of marriage.
A lady was asked by her younger sister to give her the key to her room in her father's house since her wedding was just less than a week away. She objected and said , " who knows how my husband's house will look like ? I may still return to my father's house . " It was to her according to her faith; less than two months later, she divorced and returned home. Oh what a negative mind-set!


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